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“Speaking about politics at our household gatherings could be like smoking a cigarette at a fuel station—there’s a great probability it’s going to make the entire place explode,” the journalist Elizabeth Harris wrote final yr. So she tried to method these conversations like a reporter: “I wasn’t seeking to have a back-and-forth; I used to be in search of info. I needed to know what they thought and why.”
Politics isn’t the one matter that may really feel inconceivable to debate. Households wrestle to speak about their historical past, about what they want from each other, in regards to the issues they remorse or haven’t forgiven each other for. The vacations can typically really feel just like the powder keg Harris described, the place everyone seems to be making an attempt to keep away from saying the improper factor. However perhaps there’s one other method. At this time’s publication explores methods to method even the toughest household conversations.
On Household Conversations
The Questions We Don’t Ask Our Households however Ought to
By Elizabeth Keating
Many individuals don’t know very a lot about their older family members. But when we don’t ask, we threat by no means figuring out our personal historical past. (From 2022)
How one can Not Struggle With Your Household About Politics
By Elizabeth Harris
This vacation, ask questions like a reporter.
Why We Communicate Extra Weirdly at Dwelling
By Kathryn Hymes
When individuals share an area, their collective expertise can sprout its personal vocabulary, referred to as a familect. (From 2021)
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PS
I just lately requested readers to share a photograph of one thing that sparks their sense of awe on this planet. At this time’s submission is from Karen P., who describes her view of “life in retirement at Dawn Seaside in Marshfield, Massachusetts.”
I’ll proceed to characteristic your responses within the coming weeks.
— Isabel
